Guilty Pleasurez

Love isn’t about the romantic nights or gifts. It isn’t about fireworks going off around you when you have that first, real, kiss. Love isn’t about kissing in the rain and dancing beneath the stars. It isn’t about the big moments or the big surprises. Love is not a fairytale. Love is about still having the butterflies after years. It’s about the second looks and laying in bed wide awake, all night, because you can’t go to sleep mad at each other. It’s about being willing to sacrifice, literally, everything for someone, just because you care so deeply for them. It’s not about buying them gifts, but it’s about leaving them little presents here and there, just to remind them that you are constantly thinking about them. Love is about all of the little things, that add up to really big things. Love is rare and special, but should not be treated as if it will break. Love needs to be thrown around and beat up a little bit, worn in, but not worn down. Love needs to be a comfortable feeling, a place to go when NO ONE else in the world can relate. A safe place, where you know that no matter how ugly you look or how angry you are, you will still be… loved.

Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.

Us girls never give up, we love and we love and we give and we give. We spend countless hours wondering why we weren’t good enough. We cry ourselves to sleep over that one boy. We hold back from the rest of our life, shutting everyone out. We say we’ll never love another. If we can’t have him, no one will do. We stay quiet, and single, just doing what we have to do. All because that one boy. “He wasn’t right for you” is what your best friends say. But deep down, you know it cant be that way! They just don’t understand how you feel….but really they do. Us girls, we’ve all been there. If not yet, we will be. All over that one boy…who after all, was never worth it.